Monday, January 14, 2019
Why Wait for the Emotionally Unavailable Man?
"I am FINALLY starting to realize something: unless a guy is really into you, don't go there or stay there, period.
"Every woman deserves a man who is wholeheartedly into her. Those guys who open up and shut down have issues that are never going to go away. This 'open up/shut down' B.S. is the way they are, and who needs that? It will probably NOT change!
"And do I even need to mention the problems of insecurity these men obviously have?
"There are great men out there who don't do that. I haven't been with too many men who do that, but the one or two who come to mind had ISSUES, and nothing I did or didn't do was going to make them see the light.
"It is a game they play whether they realize they are playing it or not.
"I have two men in my life right now, both of whom I always have GREAT conversations with! There is no constraint between us; we talk about anything.
"These men don't 'disappear' after a deep conversation. They both tell me I am beautiful, that they can't wait to see me, etc., etc. in a sincere way. They are both attractive, intelligent, honest, funny, sweet, athletic, VERY spiritual, etc.
"If I can have that, why would I want one of those nut jobs with emotional issues?
"It ain't worth it! Please, please, please DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME!!!! Never, ever, EVER try to rescue a guy! KNOW what you want and deserve and accept nothing less!
"A relationship only works well when both participants are emotionally healthy. If you have to lead them by the hand or help them along or play some kind of game with them, it will not work. -- C."
Thank you, C., you said it so well! I know there is no looking back for you. Almost every woman alive has had to deal with a man who was "off and on" emotionally, and as C. says - it's NOT worth it!
Of course, I must clarify that there is ONE game that I am more than okay with, and that is the Game of Love, which I'm here to help you WIN, and not only you, but him as well! (There are no losers in this "game"!)
Find out how to play the game of love in my program "Hard To Get: The Timeless Art of Conquering His Heart."
For women who aren't afraid to be a bit of a challenge!
Have a great day, and keep your Flirt on!